I try to read her column every morning. She's more like what Dear Abby and Dear Ann used to be. Every once in awhile she writes a bit of wisdom that I want to save. Where? I'm not sure, but here's one from her column today:
"Accept that people are going to do lousy things sometimes, for their own reasons. Where you share the responsibility, you can try to make amends, but when it's nothing you've done, all you can do is carry on living as well as you can according to your own principles."