The topic of the week in N's and my last counseling session was centered around the patterns couples fall into when it comes to communication and decision making. Gawd, sometimes I hate looking in that proverbial mirror at myself!
So what happens when two people marry who both avoid conflict? Oft times . . . not much. And so our assignment is to carve out some time this weekend with just the two of us (no distractions, no interruptions) and ask each other, "what do you need from me?".
Now to see if the pattern will shift--ever so slightly.