". . . we have to own our own lives. I have been beating that drum for years. Even abuse victims -- none of whom did anything to deserve abuse -- ultimately have to get themselves out of the trap that ensnared them.
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Rephrase the message however you want: I am all I have. You are all you have. Others can help, but there's only so far they can go." ~ Carolyn Hax
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